Time flies. In the blink of an eye, it's been a month since we exchanged our vows in church.
Some of my friends asked me if anything has changed since our marriage. My answer to them has been no, not really.
The truth is that every day we learn something new about each other. Living together means that you get to see all sorts of strange(sometimes cute) quirks and mannerisms you didn't realize about your other half.
We are different in many ways. She is risk averse and I transcend into yolo state too easily. She micromanages things to the smallest detail while I prefer to look at the bigger picture. She is extremely booksmart while I'm not exactly model student material.
The two of us are also undoubtedly weird. We talk to our soft toys way too much. We never succeed on our diets no matter how much we motivate ourselves. We prefer to shut out everybody and live only in our own little world. We find it tiring to interact with other people(in general). We have a terrible dress sense and abnormal body shapes so nothing we buy fits properly anyway. Europe for honeymoon? Forget that, let's pack our bags for Thailand instead.
One month is a short time in the grand scheme of things, but the aim is to have a good marriage where we continue to fall in love with each other over and over again. Plenty of people have lasting marriages, but they may not be particularly happy in the relationship.
Chloe and I are both stubborn and headstrong individuals and have had plenty of disagreements. We do not have the unrealistic expectations that everything will be smooth sailing but I'm glad that we have learnt to step back and give in over the 1442 days we've been together (thank you Between). Thank you everyone for supporting us through this journey. Here's to an eternal, blissful and happy marriage for Mr and Mrs Chen. 🤵👰 P.S. We are not planning for kids anytime soon, but thanks for all the encouragement. 😂
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